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严重美好后果
连岳 @ 2009-3-27 10:04 评论(5) 推荐值(39) 引用通告 分类: 来函照登

最后一段说的老太太挺有意思。

有时候，人会夸张对手的力量，比如他无孔不入，他控制一切，他能轻易碾碎一切；有时候，人又会夸张对方的无力，比如他是脑残，他无法得到正确结论，甚至他看不到自己的利益所在。这些夸张，其实都想为自己的不作为辩护，这和极度悲惨的人把一切归结为命运是同一个思路。

其实人一生碰到的可能都只是小事，按自己的想法说一些话，做一些事，并不会多么难，也并不会有什么严重后果——甚至像来信者一样，后果有时是严重美好。

一个大学生，说出不同意老师的观点，这本来是大学教育该有的氛围与成果，没想到却会对学生造成实际的困扰与压力。这说明大学离自由包容还很远。

不过，自由包容这些大词语，也就从你和这位老太太的这件小事中建立起来的。

以下内容为来函照登

哈罗 ！
一直想给你写点什么，但是苦于日子过得不错没什么闹心事，所以鼓捣来鼓捣去也找不着话题足以唬住你。。
我是个英语专业的学生。昨天写作老师让我们写写自己的一位良师益友，我没怎么想就飞快地写好了，当然，写的是你。

同学从厦门回来了，我让她给我带你的签名照来着，当然啦，没拿着。不过她告诉我那里有条连岳路（街？），我查了查才知道，这大概才是你笔名的起源吧？

还是先送锦旗好了，罗里啰嗦的。
挺肤浅，还有点肉麻，别笑话我的作文啊

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Having been asked the same question for thousands of times, I can’t help questioning myself: who do I admire the most? Who has influenced me the most? Not until last year did I figure it out.

I encountered him by chance in a normal idle afternoon. Same kind of browsing, I spent my time shuttling between book shelves that I can’t know better in my favourite book store. Then I saw him, inside a thick book, along with his cunning but sincere tone. From that afternoon I started to know him, at first superficially as an interesting and intelligent special column writer.

His column is filled with love. Readers send him their doubts, most of which concern the most bizarre human emotional problems one can imagine, and he replies. He is known for his smart irony and sharp answers that are always too direct to the point, at the same time revealing truth perhaps no one had seen. He says, some readers write assuming they are noble,but indeed they are not; some write under the illusion that they are humble, but indeed they are not, either. And we say, although most senders’ stories are too desperate to read, his reply illuminates readers’ faith for love. What a happy paradox.

Dissatisfied with his books, I searched for more about him on the internet. There I found him a diligent blogger, freely writing about far more penetrating topics than he does in his column. He says, the worst thing is not that someone is beaten by authority, but after that, he or she longs to become authority. I had to admit with shock that I had gained more from his blog than I did from his column. Compared with the master of love, which are elementary to human, his critical thinking has led me another path generating painstaking thoughts. Nonetheless, I never regret, I felt fortunate to agree or disagree and follow. From then on, I began to view things from varied angles and to seek for the truth rather than follow blindly.

I always feel ashamed while reading his work, dreading to see myself reflected in those supposed-to-be-ridiculous stories or thoughts on which he critisizes so severely. However, I cannot cease doing so. More often I see myself mirrored, more capable I become to refine myself. That’s how he is changing me and how I feel grateful to have known him.

He is Lianyue.

上学期我们上公共关系课，老师是个人人都怕的老太太。我发言说应该树立自己的价值体系，不要盲目跟着主流媒体走，弄得老太太相当不满意，我也愣了。但让我很感动的是，全班同学这时都声援我。最后老太太也没同意我们，此后一学期都没给我好日子过。我为这老太太很是郁闷，却找不到适当的人说。学期末查成绩的时候，我本来以为我会挂，却惊讶地发现老太太竟然给了我全专业最高分。

我也不知道这个事例能说明什么，只是既然写信给你了，就干脆把你当作那个适当的倾诉对象吧。知道你特忙，这面锦旗就当消遣吧。

祝开心，且远离电脑辐射！

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西个个 [65.49.2.*] @ 2009-3-27 22:34:31
显然被夸美了。
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Ailleurs [203.210.1.*] @ 2009-3-27 23:31:19
莲岳路 我去厦门出差时也注意过
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菜青虫 [65.49.2.*] @ 2009-3-28 1:15:02
不赞同一个人价值观不代表专业上不能给高分。专业分数仅仅是衡量专业知识而已。

很多老师都这样（基数不小只是比例太少），其实他们比人们想的要开明很多。
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江苏人在上海 [64.182.119.*] @ 2009-3-28 1:18:23
怎一个爽字了得！
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菜青虫 [65.49.2.*] @ 2009-3-28 1:18:25
不过换一个其他专业的老师，比如哲学，那结果就不好预料了。
曾经见过一个老师因为学生说了几句支持不可知论和唯心主义的看法就给不及格直接重修的（一般都是有一次补考机会，不用花钱重修）

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